Supersize me.
Posted in Exercise, general health, nutrition, weight loss on September 8th, 2010 by b-strong – Be the first to commentSchool is back in session which means we had to buy new school clothes for our 5 & 8 year old.
Something jumped out at me when my wife was describing how she had a difficult time finding clothes that fit them, mainly pants. The “normal” sizing charts have changed. Many, if not most, of the pants my kids were trying on were fine length wise, but were all too big in the waist. The clothing manufacturers have actually started to change the size of clothes based on what is “common” in today’s world, or this country at least, not what is “normal”. A majority of the clothes my kids tried on were all too big in the waist area. This also caused me to remember that when I go buy new jeans I also have the same problem. Two changes that seems to be making it’s way into clothing specs for adults is that people’s stomachs/waistlines are bigger and their asses are flatter. No one has an ass anymore. People are sitting around twice as much, not exercising as much and as a result their butt muscles have atrophied and the stomachs have grown. Every time I try on jeans they are big in the waistline and tight in the ass. Sounds silly, but it’s true. I thought it was maybe just that particular brand, but it’s not. As a result I’ve started wearing ass-less chaps. I digress. The majority of clothing manufacturers are changing the sizing charts to accommodate larger people. I guess I can’t blame them, business is business.
Next time you drop your children off at school, take a look around. Children are getting larger and larger, and beginning at a much younger age as well. I’m 40, if you’re my age, think about your friends when you were in elementary school. I had class sizes of 25-30 kids and I can remember maybe 3 or 4 kids that were overweight and the rest were usually rail thin. All we did was run around all day. During summer, I was out of the house by 8am, on my bike and wouldn’t stop until my mother threatened us to get us in for dinner. After dinner, we were back outside until it was dark. Things are different today as we all know.
I work with elementary school kids during the summer and I hear the same story from parents when they are signing their kids up for my athlete’s camp. “My son plays football, he’s a big kid for his age, he plays football, he’s about your size and he’s only 13.” They say this like their child is advanced or well ahead of other kids when in actuality they end up just being very overweight children who have a very hard time controlling their own bodies. It’s a shame. This country seems to have a fascination with size, bigger is better. Bigger houses, bigger cars, bigger cups of coffee, super sized servings. We’ve lost all concept of what is actually “normal” in terms of size or in terms of what we actually need.
Food quality is definitely worse, there are a greater number of bad food choices available, technology has diminished the amount of activity required by us to get work done or to entertain ourselves, and parents either just don’t seem to care about what their kids eat, or just don’t know what are good and bad choices anymore. I see parents focusing on what is the best “unhealthy” choice they can make while shopping. Which is the healthier of these cookies, which is the healthier soda, diet or regular, low sugar this, low fat that, but none of the foods being decided upon are actually real food. The biggest decision when going to the store should be whether or not you can afford the organic veges or non-organic veges, not whether you should be getting Newmans organic Oreos or regular Chips Ahoy.
The simple fact is that in this country 50% of the population is overweight, and 33% percent of the population is obese and these numbers are rising rapidly.
Are you happy with your current body? When you get out of the shower and see yourself in the mirror are you happy with what you see? Are you happy with your current physical performance abilities? Do you want your children to feel the way you do? Do you want to be around for your children? Do you want to be a physical burden on your children when you are in your later years? Do you want your children to feel good or embarrassed about themselves and about their bodies? These are the things I think about. This may sound somewhat shallow on my end just focusing on the physical body, but the physical and emotional side of all of us are closely connected. This goal of being physically healthy comes from the inside first. You can’t really have health in one and not the other.
Every child should feel good about themselves regardless of their weight but the fact is that there are many kids who do not feel good about themselves because they are overweight and embarassed. It is our responsibility as adults and as parents to make it easier for them to be healthy. Make the path easier for them, change their environment so it’s easier for them to make better choices! Change your own shopping behavior. It’s much easier to go to a store and not purchase unhealthy food then it is to buy junk food and then not eat it when it’s in your house staring you in the face when you open your cupboard. Think about the fact that you can have a positive or negative impact on your children’s mental and physical health by what you feed them, what you give them access too, and what you teach them, and by what they see. The negative results may not be immediate but look around.
Another excuse I hear is..”It’s in our genes”, “My parents were overweight, so I’m overweight”. Not true. That’s you just saying “I don’t care enough”, “I don’t want to be bothered”. Much of it is learned behavior, and the situation you were put in. You can’t control how tall your kids are going to be, or how large their frame is going to be but you can control how much fat they store on their body and your own body as well. You have some control over whether they are going to get sick every other week or perhaps just once throughout the school year. These things are influenced by our food choices and whether or not our bodies are getting what they need to be strong on the inside. Don’t use the “gene” excuse. Bodyfat is the one variable we have the most control over and it’s dictated by the daily choices we make and how we live our lives.
Answer this quesion…Is there anything more important to you then your child’s health?
I remember an instance when my son was about 3. He was at daycare and the provider said there was a minute where he stopped responding to her and was just in a daze and it appeared he was almost in a seizure like state. At that moment, nothing else in the world mattered. Everything else in my life was of no importance to me except my son’s health. It scared the shit out of me like nothing else ever had! It turned out to be nothing but I’ll never forget it.
It’s our responsibility to lead by example and give them a chance because the way things are now they don’t have much of a chance. You don’t have to be a complete nut over every single thing your kids eat, you just have make it easier for them to make better choices. You’re body can tolerate a treat here and there, it just can’t tolerate being assaulted day after day, year after year. If you aren’t willing to make the effort for yourself, at least make it for them. It’s up to us. Respect the fact that you were blessed with a child with a perfectly healthy, functioning body. Some are not as fortunate as you.